Hey, you want to play with me?

When I have the opportunity to listen to clients in sessions, one thing that I realize is one, we take ourselves way to seriously, and two because of that we lose the sense of play.  Life is love and when that understanding is a realization, then you will see the play and the parts in it.  When you observe children playing, they have fun, create rules, and then throw them away, and play a new game. But as adults we seem to be more concerned with getting, making, wanting, expecting, needing, the other, or trying to full fill a dream of marriage, a house, security for life, and yet because most of us are living from selfishness, we neglect our hearts.  The desire in your heart will always debunk the mind. So lets say your will wants to live out this lifestyle, and living that lifestyle takes work, effort, and why you are working and efforting along the way you find yourself obsessed by the dream. This obsession leads to little lies here and there, manipulating others, lusting to get what you want, and destroying friendships, families, in the process of getting this dream done. So now you have achieved the dream and you look back and no one is around, it took ten years to get there, and all you have to show for it is this, pain you caused, struggle, and humiliation of yourself and others, which is greed (Lack).  So you have the dream and yet you are unhappy but why. You have the new cars, mansion, dream, and yet you are sad inside, not happy. Maybe this  true or not.

Now your heart desire comes in and says, “Okay now its time to be happy.”  Well you have to look at that, see what happiness is, and the mind thinks well I have to hold on to this, because happiness means I have to let all this go.  Well out of no where the job goes, money, the home, the partner who was only with you for fame and co-dependence is gone, and so now all the people you pushed over, cheated, lied, and all the ret of it are with you.  Your pride is wounded, your greed is seen for what it is, and you are alone, the same type of aloneness you were racing from with the dream.  So you can now look at your hearts desire and see what it yearns for. Come to find out it wants to open a place for people who need help finding a job, you decide to help people, the non-profit moves quickly, people are being helped because you decided to help others. You feel light, laugh lots, and play more. You have a partner who loves you as you are, and you love them.  It was never about the conditioned dream, it was always about service and helping and loving;  that makes the world go round.  Our world is in a state of need.

The need you can provide by loving your heart and yourself. From there you will discover play, laughter, service, and help.  We live in humanity and we need each other. Mother earth has provided so much abundance for us and we have taken her for granted.  Now we must give back to her and we can only do that through playing.

So rewrite your scripts with yourself first and the rest will fall into place.

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To Ponder

What if right now you took complete responsibility for everything you have ever done? Everything up to now. You wrote a list of everyone you have hurt, harmed, and forgave them now.

Repeating to each name, “I forgive you now and I forgive myself for my actions, words, and deeds. I release you from me now and take full responsibility for my part. As far as I am concerned this matter is over and done with. I wish you nothing but the best of everything.”

What if by taking responsibility now, you decided that you have a choice?

So after you forgave, you begin to write a list of new choices to make.

You envision the end result of things and you see yourself as the creator.

What if then after seeing the vision, you just believed it was done. No more questioning, doubting, you just moved and held the feeling.

Try it and see..:)

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Sacred Union: Love and Lust

The core question that one can ask oneself is, “Why am I so frightened to be alone?” When the question is first posed to the self, images and ideas swarm around the mind about being “alone”. The word alone entails fear for many people and yet underneath the fear, like all fear is death. So as we begin to sit with being alone and death, we ask the question again, “Why am I so frightened to be alone?” Sitting with it, being with it, contemplating this part which is frightened by being “alone.” So maybe the “alone” is really being, just being without thoughts, stories, ideas, images, and past/future. Being without an identity. So in essence there is an identity crisis. The smaller “i” has dominated, and the question finally looks at the smaller “i”. The smaller “i” thinks its something, believes in it, fights for it, and all the while it is separating itself from the “I”, the universal source of all. You may wonder how does this work with love and lust. Perfectly.

We have conditioned and been conditioned to the smaller “i”. So love and lust are based on preconceived notions. We are taught that love will save us in our stories with the princess in the castle and the prince on the horse. The idea and image that a man must be and act a certain way to have his possession, prize. That a woman must be and act a certain way to have a man, be its prize. All the while it is all conditioning. Nobody is happy because if they were to end the game of conditions, then they would be alone again. And since they are frightened to be alone, they play the game. Most people are so use to doing, playing parts, being small, believing in ideas and images, religions, corporations, traditions, that no longer serve them, that even if they are miserable in their life they will continue to not question it. Because the conditioned world wants you to believe in struggle, pain, fighting, and war. Otherwise if you don’t- the world which you live would change.

What is interesting is that when you commit to really knowing your self (Heart), you will be alone. The conditioned group will no longer stand by you. They will mark you as weird, different, they will judge you, and crucify you. Our biggest story of this is Jesus. Many, many people couldn’t stand him, but he stood for unconditional love. Which has lasted longer? Peoples hating him or his love for all. He loved so much that when they crucified him, he forgave them. Pretty powerful. So the sense of being alone when investigated actually opens up the portal to LOVE AND LUST.

But now the love and lust no longer come from a smaller place, but from a sacred place. No longer is the body used to get things, quick gratifications, have sex with everybody, eating, doing drugs, power, and all the nonsense of the smaller lust. But by having the realization that being alone really is all one, no thoughts, stories, conditions, etc. That realization is a sacred union, which lifts the smaller “i” to the bigger “I” (unconditional love), or the dying of the small self to the rising of the larger self. The metaphor or story of Jesus is one of just that. Then LOVE AND LUST can flourish as one. Meaning that you have a sacred union with another. Two whole beings exploring each other and loving without the condition of being conditional. So their love is sacred, the pleasure they have with each other is sacred, their children are sacred, it is all a sacred gift with no more sense of death which is this propaganda of being alone. Which as you can see when investigated is a portal to breaking the conditional stories, myths, separation of each other on this planet.

So the realization of the sacred union is the appreciation of yourself and the other. So all is present. Now the sexual relations with another is intimate, soul filled, loving, expansive, and playful, and erotic, and it comes from a place of unconditional love. No longer does the orgasm come from just the lower body, but now it is full. Filling every area, cell of the body temple. It also lets the two souls see that commitment is the wrong use of the relationship. “Commitment” means possession, but if you call it a sacred union then the language about you and the other changes. Now the union is ordained by something bigger, open, and the relationship is more of a soul contract between the two. When something is sacred between two people it is harder to put energy in cheating, jealousy, and all the smaller forms of lust.

“Sacred Union” is where we are headed and finally understanding that there is no separation, that life breath that is breathing you now is sacred, relationships are sacred, and life is sacred. Death is really the lower bowing to the higher. How beautiful you are…Love you

Single Dad’s Guide to raising a Daughter

I just started writing a column on my journey as a single Dad.  It runs in NEW EARTH DAILY and GOOD MAN’s FASHION.

Here is the link: Single Dad’s Guide To Raising A Daughter

Straight from the Heart

January 2nd, 2012

At some moment in this life, in this body, it will occur to you- that it was all a play.  Everyone in your life was playing the part to help you realize how powerful you really are. At times it felt like a nightmare, at times it felt really great, other moments felt indifferent, however it worked or has worked out for you, there will come a time when you will drop the character you have played for so long.  When you do, the others will walk off stage right, and this stage which seemed so crowded with drama, chaos, tragedy, comedy, will be swept away, and you will see your responsibility in it all. Recognizing that there really are no accidents. That forgiveness is taking responsibility for you. That a reaction is a script read over and over and memorized and then repeated back, until you learn that the lesson was for you to change the script, and accept what happened, and move on. Then you will enter responsibility which simple means “Able to respond.”  And you will take a big breath and smile…looking stage right you will honestly thank everyone for helping you discover your light, sound, and heart. Some will stick around, others will leave forever to be replaced by more supportive, loving people.

Will things still come up, oh yes.  But the attachment will be gone, and you will see the situation as a opportunity to shine, and not whine.

“Nothing is right or wrong but thinking makes it so.” Shakespeare

It won’t matter anymore about gossiping, blame, complaining, being right or being wrong, because the world goes round and round. People come, people go. And there is no stopping it, controlling it, because life is change. You will see then that you are a miracle.  That we are never separate from anything, for everything is perfect and organized.

I love this Shakespeare quote, “If music be the food of life, then play on.”

Let your voice soar, be free, create, dance, laugh….Watch this video. Everyone is singing the song. We are all singing together. What song are you singing to the world? SING FROM YOUR HEART, WE NEED YOU!!!

Heel then HEAL

As we approach the new year, with all of its expectations, hopes, dreams, and changes in lifestyles, with goal settings, visualizing, etc…I thought about healing. What is it to heal? What are we healing from? As I pondered this, I remembered a friend.  I watched her train her dog.  When the dog was wild, out of control, she would yell, “Heel”.  The dog after a few seconds would in fact sit on its back legs, tongue hanging out,  expecting a treat from my friend, for listening.

In a way, when we find ourselves out of control, lost, confused, diseased, addicted, caught up, etc…we in turn, turn to something higher, bigger, and we too “HEEL” and by doing this act, we begin to HEAL. We heel to the bigger and allow the smaller to rest. Which is what happens when we go in nature. When we accept what is. Become aware of the breath. Pray, sing, dance, create, affirm, paint, we finally drop our will and allow and acknowledge the greater creative force to take over our lives. Correct.

It is refreshing to heel to this force. And what a treat we get in return. Life becomes peaceful, fun, joyous, and filled with abundance beyond belief. The listening is from within. We are rewarded for heeling to it, praising, loving it now.

So as we enter 2012…let us finally heel to the bigger….and by doing this we will HEAL.

I use my sound to help in this process.  Allowing the sound to attune and tune people in. Remember when you were born. There was the breath, then the sound, then the words, then the story, then the belief in the story, etc…I invite you to HEEL and you will HEAL. Give up the fight. Amen…love you all…Happy New Year 2012


Before you go to bed at night, look in the mirror and just notice you. Fall in love with you again.  As you look at yourself, say “Thank you for a job well done.” Thank yourself for how perfect your life has been and how you handled it, and didn’t think you could, or didn’t handle it. Whatever the case, you learned and thank yourself for learning, and attempting, even it went wrong or felt wrong.  Then say- “You are awesome, I love you, and forgive myself for everything on this day that I participated in that may have hurt someone consciously or unconsciously. I take responsibility for my self now.”

In the morning, look in the mirror, “Hello awesome creator, what can I create today. Then play with the infinite that is you!”


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